손을 게으르게 놀리는 자는 가난하게 되고 손이 부지런한 자는 부하게 되느니라

손을 게으르게 놀리는 자는 가난하게 되고 손이 부지런한 자는 부하게 되느니라

(잠언 10:4~:)

Balance is hard. Define your internal definition of success

Balance is hard.
5Fs
Family, faith, fitness(mental/ physical) fun, friends

If you are having fun, it's okay to leave for that.
Have fun!

Define your internal definition of success.
What re you willing to sacrifice to get there.

Not just what you say but who you are
You are a walking representation

LTG 칼드웰

Don't panic, just ask.

"Just to be clear, is anyone going to die as a result of our action or
inaction? Will Ogilvy go out of business? Will anyone lose a child?
Because if that's true, let me know, and I'll get significantly more
agitated." It just makes everyone laugh, and when we're done laughing,
I tell them, "Now let's really focus and get this problem sorted out."

HBR, the best lesson I've ever got

Don't worry, you will get beeter because I'm going to keep yelling at you

Don't worry, you will get better because I'm going to keep yelling at you.

- 데보라 리, 컴퓨터 랩장

내가 일처리를 꼼꼼히 못했음을 사과를 하러,
불편한 죄스러운 마음과 자책감 가득, 용서를 구하자,

- 잘 못한다고 너무 내 자신을 탓 할 필요도 남을 탓할 필요도, 그냥 점점 더 잘하면 되는 것임. 완벽할 필요가 없음. 잘하는게 있고 못하는게 있으니까.

never assume the door is closed without asking

Lesson confirmed: never assume the door is closed without asking. ;) I will definitely reserve a place for you, Sang, and appreciate your informing me of your particular situation.

- 베티

Good fathers are kind and thoughtful

You send such a kind note. Good fathers are kind and thoughtful, and you seem both. Just keep balance in your life so you have time and interest in supporting your family. Much of life is turning up and listening, so you will I know be a great father. Stay in touch and I'll hope to see you again.

엘리자베스 발레에게, 매니징 디렉터 오브 모건 스탠리

Brand is really important in your life. Not fair, but short hand for your resume.

Morgan Stanley의 Managing Director 엘리자베쓰 발레

 

 

First woman in the yard. 1973, first woman in the yard  200 woman, 1000 men.

1.      Mother of two children: most wonderful role. You can take what you learn in this role and apply them in the whole world. It's the most important role. Don't forget this role. Women have specific roles in this regard. You spend more time than father with the children. I am a role model to children and to those who want to have a balanced life.  Other two could be rocky, but this is not. At least they think I can.

2.      Woman at morgan Stanley: THIS PAYS the bill I am from Harvard, I think I am goofy, funny, smart. But at morgan stanely, I am serious, I work hard play by their rules. Being a monitory is a huge positive.  I would add one more person. obc people. We are dying for more minirotiy people. It's wonderful to be a gay. Marry your passion and gift.  Passionate, aggressive, ambitious.  A lot of people have their own prism. I like proving to you that…, …  

3.      Obama role: they say if you follow your passion, it will open the doors for you. My passion rose from retail politics. I do retail politics. I love to get in to the transition.  LISTEN TO OBAMA AUDIOBOOK. Jeremy Bird, organizer of penn. It is completely in my sweet spot. USE your leadership skills. It's a gift.

 Galvanize you

여자와 흑인이 왔는데, 이게 오히려 좋다고. 더욱 유리하다고.

How do you deal with the tension between 1 and 2 . I had healthy children and lucky husband. And I also made money because I needed them.

Helper, supportive husband, healthy children

Advice is never quit.

Try not to quit your job. Once you quit, it's really hard to get back.

Young, cheap, more technology.

Just don't quit.

Downshift and upshift, then downshift and upshift

Life is equation. You want your variables to be equal to 100

My variables are different

30 3030 some board 10

I don't do 100% work. I work asset management 9-5

Yes you can have a job that has passion, pays your job. You need the credibility that's the currency. The fact that I am woman, they will do a lot not to lose you.

Home office, take your time, don't just leave.

You gain the currency to spend later.

We are the profile that they are looking for. I have the access to those with money

Politics,- no for two reasons

1.      Spent 6 million and lost. Last time.

2.      You kill yourself and you can lose, but I will mnight do

Healthcare for life begins next year.

One reason is the brand. Brand is really important in your life. Not fair, but short hand for your resume.

Icing on your cake. I help them and they help me.